Me and my boyfriend, both 16, have talked about sex before. We definitely aren't planning on having sex soon, but I sometimes get anxiety thinking about it. What if my body is something to be ashamed of? Would he judge me? I know that he loves me, but these are some irrational thoughts I have alongside my curious thoughts about the first time. It'll be both our first times if we do have sex, can anyone please tell me what the first time is like? I know that it varies per experience, I'd just like to know the different experiences out there!